WHO DO YOU TRUST?

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Who do you trust?

Paying attention to the trusted source

So Many Choices

We all have a ton of choices to make and where we end up in life is greatly influenced by whether or not we make the right decisions. So we look for advice and hope that it helps us make good choices.

Most of us look to ourselves first. We think and we feel. We analyze out of our thoughts and emotions. We look back and draw from our experiences. We toss and turn, we anguish and we try to make the best decision. Should I eat that? Should I buy that? Should I quit my job?

Sometimes we seek out other people for help. We look to parents, friends, former coaches, and people whom we feel are role models. We ask them and again we find ourselves unsure. What will they say? Do they have any experience in this? Should I listen to them or myself?

We read books and watch TV talk shows; all because we are looking for a trusted source for answers. We’re trying to do the right things. We’re trying to make good decisions.

Read Proverbs 22:17-19

  • What is the value of seeking others’ help and wisdom?
  • Who is your best-trusted source for wisdom? Why?
  • Why do you feel it is important to really dig in to the teaching of scripture?

The Pain of Poor Choices

When we trust the wrong source for wisdom, we open ourselves to a life of pain, loss and difficult situations. When we listen to the wrong voices (even our own), we make bad decisions and we suffer.

Remember Samson? He made some pretty dumb decisions. God wanted him to free Israel from their enemies, but Samson kept making wrong choices. He listened and trusted his emotions. He didn’t seek God or any other wise, Godly counselors. As a result, he lost his strength. The strongest man alive was helpless. He suffered great pain and loss because he listened to the wrong voice. As a result, he made wrong decisions.

Read Proverbs 16:20 and Judges 16:1–21

  • How can our pride keep us from listening to wisdom?
  • What were the consequences of Samson not seeking trusted wisdom?
  • What does this Proverb tell us about seeking God’s wisdom?

The Challenge

Proverbs 28:26 tells us, “He who trusts in himself is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom is kept safe.” Proverbs 29:25 says, “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.”

The way for us to make quality decisions is to find the Trusted Source and that’s God. Trusting the wrong source leads to pain, frustration, and regret. Nobody needs that. We need to develop a habit of turning to God for every decision, not just when we’re already in trouble. We need to go to Him first. He’s the trusted source. He has the answers.

Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”

What are some ways, this week, that you can begin listening to and trusting God’s wisdom?

Let us know how it goes.

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  • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

    Thanks for checking out our new space! We hope you enjoy the devotional and join the conversation over here.

    Leading the conversation this week will be myself, Bill Holbrook from Student Ministries, and Sue Hanstad from Women’s Ministries. They have included insights from the devotional below and will be checking in from time to time to read, comment, and engage the dialogue.

    We hope this space allows you to continue working through the weekend talk and apply it into your personal walk with God.

    620 days ago9 Replies

    • Sue Glebe

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      What were the post-it notes for? Nothing was said at the 5:15 service.

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Sue Glebe

      The post it notes were an opportunity to write down what you are trusting God with. They stuck them outside the auditorium.

      618 days ago

    • Gary

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      So many times I have made decisions in my life that if I had trusted in God to show me the way it would have saved me grief and embarrasement! God speaks to us all and when we trust God is when you hear God

      618 days ago

    • Jill

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      This devotional was great. I always mean to look back through my notes from the weekend service, but it doesn’t always happen. The devotional today was a great extension for me, to continue the conversation that I’ve been having with God since Saturday. It is leading me to “apply my heart to what God is teaching me” – proverbs 22:17. Thanks!

      618 days ago

    • Rich

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      It’s the going through the times of not knowing the outcome of my decisions and having to rely totally on the wisdom of God which causes me the most anxiety. However, looking at how God has lead me through past trials helps me remember He is in control and his guidance will lead me through current struggles/decisions. The great example of Sampson is that even though he made a very poor decision, he repented and was still able to do 1 last great deed for the Lord.

      618 days ago

    • Patrice W

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      Thank you for your comment on my post. It will really help. The thought never occurred to me to practice some silence and solitude. I am the type of person who you will hear say often that “I have to keep it movin’” I eat standing up sometimes and I rarely take time to be quiet. Still and quiet would be absent from a list of qualities that describe my personality or my practices.lol I appreciate the suggestion and the metaphor is really a great one to understand what might be going on with me as I “keep it movin”. I know this will be an opportunity to trust God because I have only tried to practice silence and solitude twice in 7years—it did not become a habit clearly. lol. Thanks again.

      618 days ago

    • Deb Peters

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      Josh, I was so sad yesterday. Right after the online service started yesterday, our internet went down, due to changing internet companies. I will be there next week for sure.

      617 days ago

    • Mike Johnson

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      This idea of The Conversation is great! a true answer to prayer. I was just the other day talking with God about how awesome and informative the weekend talk are, but I have trouble getting them to sink in and take hold. I believe this will be the tool to help do just that for me and so many more. Thanks Josh and all the staff at Northridge that are continually coming up with new and wonderful ways to move Gods people forward in there journeys and relationships with the Lord.

      617 days ago

    • Deb

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      Been pondering on this for a couple of days…. and what I think the Lord has been saying to me…. as the sun comes up every morning, and sets every night… I dont even question or think that the sun would not come up every morning and not set every night…I Trust completely without question or reservation….. Hummm…. still in process….

      616 days ago

    • Nicole Cripps

      in reply to Josh (Social Media Pastor)

      I really like this devotional and conversation- such a great way to connect and dig deeper into the weekend service. :)

      615 days ago

  • Conversation LeaderSue (Women's Ministries)

    Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”

    I memorized this scripture as a child and through my marriage, raising 3 kids, and now as I’ve entered into being an in-law and a “Grammy” of the most beautiful 7 month old, Annabelle, I continue to see God’s Word come to life. Watching Annabelle trust me unconditionally — to feed her, to keep her safe, and care for her every need — has reminded me that much more of how God’s love and direction for me is perfect; even when I can’t see it. How about you? Has God given you a picture of how to trust Him?

    620 days ago10 Replies

    • Patrice W

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Yes!! I am the mother of the coolest almost 2yr old girl. When I look at how she looks to me an her dad I see how we should relate to God. It is such a great, profound, but simple lesson. I am thankful to God that he makes some lessons so obvious.

      618 days ago

    • Keith Drake

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Each and everyday I put my trust into the Lord. He guides me throuhout my day giving me the answers to very difficult decisions that need to be made concerning my family and business. By putting my “whole trust” into him he directs me with the knowledge needed and reveals his word. Since attending NRC Pastor Powell and the exceptional staff that support NRC, they have taught me how to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. God bless to all of you.

      617 days ago

    • Miesha W

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      It’s funny how you ask God to reveal something to you and you have your own idea of how that should come to fruition and the actual revelation is NOTHING compared to what you could have imagined. For me, trusting and loving God came through the shared rearing of my niece. It was during a time when we were sitting on the couch watching TV and she was on the floor. She got up and joined me on the couch by sitting in my lap and resting her head on my chest. I asked her if she wanted something to which she replied, “No, I just wanted to be closer to you”. It filled me with immense joy and I heard the Lord say to me, “I desire the same intimacy with you”. I was floored. There isn’t anything that my niece can give me that will be of equal compensation for what I have given her, but I don’t really need that nor do I desire it. I look forward to the moments where she just wants to sit with me and I can give her what she needs. The Lord is the same with His children; we can never give to the Lord anything equal to the sacrifice of His son, but that’s not what He’s looking for from us, but the moments when we desire to be in His presence.

      617 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Patrice, I agree, it’s really sweet to now have the example in front of me once again with my grandchild

      617 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Keith, You said it! It’s a daily journey we are all on. Thanks for the kind words.

      617 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Miesha, wow what a great picture. It’s so true, there was a Christian Song out along time ago that talked from God’s perspective called “I miss my time with you”. I can tell when I have been doing His work, but not spending time listening to Him. God Bless ya!

      617 days ago

    • Anne

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Although I listened to Pastor Brad’s talk Sunday about really trusting in God & have heard it also from a dear friend (whose husband is studying to become a pastor)~I have ALWAYS had trust issues. I’m sure this stems from my childhood and past relationships, but also know if I could just “let my guard down” and let God take over my life-it’d would be sooo much better! I’m by no means trying to compare God with people that are or have been in my life but I just don’t know how to overcome this problem! I do pray to Him on a daily basis but it’s usually about others & a little bit about myself. Along with praying for me~do you have any suggestions?! Thank you & God Bless :)

      617 days ago

    • Pam

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      The picture is clear and moreso after the fact. Today is not my day. Please pray for me.

      616 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Anne, I will be praying for you, and I understand if you have had trust broken in the past, (which we all have, to some degree or another, because we are human) it makes it difficult to trust God. My suggestion to you is to be around and talk to believers that have been Christ followers for awhile, a small group, this blog, or a few personal friends to name a few. Time after time I see God’s hand as I turn around to look back at my journey,and I didn’t see or feel it at the time. It has grown my trust to KNOW that He wants and has the best for us, even when we don’t know if. Keep going! God is good.

      614 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sue (Women's Ministries)

      Pam, praying you are having a better day today.

      614 days ago

  • Conversation LeaderBill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

    A few years ago I was struggling to make an important life-decision…no matter how I tried to reason with my own logic and I came up empty.  My friend and I were taking a spiritual retreat so I decided to take this to God, unfortunately as a last resort.  On this specific retreat I was reading through the book of James and came upon this verse:
    “5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (1:5, NIV)
     
    I kind of chucked to myself and thought “really God, just ask…that’s all I have to do?”.  At that moment I decided to do something crazy, I took God at His word.  I stood up, went outside, walked along the lake at our campground and prayed a simple prayer asking God what I should do. No posturing. No logic. No argument from either side. Just a question between me and my Creator.
     
    God’s answer was equal parts deafening and stillness as He answered my question and gave me His wisdom. It was not the answer I expected and it didn’t make sense to my brain but it was the right call. That moment has pushed me to continue seeking His wisdom over mine even when I think my knowledge and experience wins.  I am not always great at stopping and asking but the truth is that Proverbs 3:5-6 is the only way to make choices with a knowledge that God is in control and we are not.

    618 days ago4 Replies

    • Ruth

      in reply to Bill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      How did you know after struggling that this was God’s answer?

      618 days ago

    • Jennifer

      in reply to Bill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      I’ve been struggling with a decison that God has wanted me to make for months. I felt Him tugging at my heart but I pushed Him away ouf of fear and human logic. I finally decided to listen to Him and take the leap of faith. I am unsure of what the future holds for me but I know following Him and trusting Him is better than listening to myself and continuing in the situation I was in. How interesting that the talk this week was about Trusting in the Lord. It is proof that He is always there for us. He lets us know we are doing the right thing and He has our back when we trust in Him. His way is always better!!!!

      618 days ago

    • Anne

      in reply to Bill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      I believe that God helped you to see what His path was. Sometimes I find it really difficult to be still and quiet and wait for Him. Maybe the problem is asking too late or to close to when you need to know an answer. I think sometimes I may be confusing my inner thoughts or my feelings with God’s voice. I so want to be obedient to His will but I don’t think I really listen, or don’t know how to listen. I am working on that I guess.

      618 days ago

    • Sandra Afetian

      in reply to Bill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      I didn’t here from God for most of the summer. Was out of work and needed some guidence. It was very strange. I usually here a small voice or a wisper, I’d ask time and again where should I look for a job. Will I find one. Should I look over here ? Nothing. I had alot to take care of this summer with my sister having back surgery. Niece Going to Afganistan, trying to get the family together before she left. My sister developed Breast cancer, I needed to be there for her. All the while I’m asking God, Will I get a job soon? Then my son announced out of the blue- I’m getting married , had a wedding to throw. The day after the wedding I stared my new job. I didn’t just have that one I had two other job offers at the same time! God always gives you choices. He needed me to be still and trust him. Boy it was a hard thing to do!

      617 days ago

  • Elizabeth

    I have found that the only time true change has happened in my life it has come through following God’s word. Even in battling swinging moods and depression, focusing on and repeating the truths I have learned keeps me steady. This week Women’s On-Campus Small Groups begin meeting again, and I am planning to attend. Working through a Bible study with a small group helps me to be more consistent in getting into the Bible and listening for His leading as I study.

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Pam

      in reply to Elizabeth

      As Brad mentioned in the talk this weekend, it’s a journey. I think that God knows that it takes more than immediate gratification for us to worship Him. To appreciate the sun, one must accept the rain. Can you imagine what life would be like if we never struggled with anything? I am sorry for your trials but stay the course. God is working you through and is working through you!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Elizabeth

      Having others that are spurring us on is such a critical piece of the faith journey. Good call on the On-Campus Small Group. I hear they are awesome.

      618 days ago

  • Tammy W.

    I’m looking for a ladies Bible study in the Saline area either on Thursday or Friday mornings. Is there anything available?

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Tammy W.

      I’d check out group finder. It’s your best bet. http://www.NorthRidgeChurch.com/findagroup

      618 days ago

    • kerri

      in reply to Tammy W.

      At the top of the church’s website, click on connecting & then small groups. There is a link for group finder, where you can search for a small group by time & area.

      618 days ago

  • Emily

    Last evening, as Brad’s talk contined to resonate from the morning hours, I saw outside a double rainbow. I took a picture, and I knew that my “sign” was there, that God is with us, loving us, supporting us, and showing us that there is beauty all around, even in the midst of the anniversary of such tragedy. It was a beautiful end to Sept. 11, 2011. We are so lucky.

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Emily

      Wow that must have been beautiful. I love that we can trust His promises and know that He is faithful.

      618 days ago

    • Sharon

      in reply to Emily

      I was walking in the park a few days after 9.11.2001. I was meditating and thinking – what would Jesus think? I looked up and there were two rainbows…blue skies but rainbows. Others in the park were looking up too… I thought that was a great sign from God, the timing was amazing. thank you Jesus… Your PEACE is around us even in turmoil!

      617 days ago

  • Diane

    I find myself to be more of a “watch and wait and see” kind of person. I feel that no matter what happens God will make it work for me somehow. I don’t shirk responsibility in lew of “letting God take care of it” but I am not a worrier and I feel that God’s hand has been on my life long before I even sought Him out….and for that I am ever grateful.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Diane

      Worry is often the enemy of spirituality. It’s so tough to overcome though. It’s so encouraging to look back on our lives and recognize God’s finger print.

      617 days ago

  • Mary

    I have been struggling with a situation for several years now. Despite all my humanly efforts, nothing much has changed. I am taking this scripture seriously and handing this situation over to God. I don’t have any idea what this will look like, but I know now I need to change it up. I felt that God was directing Brad’s sermon to me yesterday.

    618 days ago3 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Mary

      Chronic struggle is so tough; it wears on the soul. Praying now that God will reveal himself through you situation with delivering or sustaining grace.

      618 days ago

    • Julie Hines

      in reply to Mary

      The Lord has been breaking down one strong hold after another for years now, I am in a huge battle with a major strong hold, and I am trusting Him to get me through and restore my life to what it was suppose to be, Please Pray for me as I fight to be obedient to Him, Thanks so Much! Julie

      618 days ago

    • Carrie

      in reply to Mary

      Man have I been in your shoes. It seems like life continues to hit us where we struggle the most. When I gave my situation to God and saw His hand all over it, I a renewed faith and peace I had not felt in a really long time!

      618 days ago

  • Daniel

    As a husband and father of two, I take great comfort in this topic. I have made some bad decisions that not only affect me personally, also my family. This weekends message was right on time to give me comfort and insight that God and his word are there for me. I also appreciate the scripture from James 1:5. I truly need a God who sees past my fault’s and still Love’s me. I’m encouraged and ready to give God all of Me today. His word is a lamp unto feet and a light unto my path. I need to get out of the way and allow my creator to live thru me. Not alway’s easy, one day at a time! Thank you NorthRidge for this ministry, looking forward to participating.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Daniel

      Your message is an encouragement to me. Way to follow God in surrender!

      618 days ago

  • Chris

    I feel like Mary- I’m struggling as well, but I don’t think I’m putting my best efforts forward, so that’s why I don’t think much has changed in my life. Other than I have hope. But I’m like Bruce- I’m not sure I’d recognize any signs if God put them in front of me.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Chris

      It’s amazing how tuning your ear to God and listening for Him makes seeing and hearing from Him so much easier. We see and hear the things we are watching and listening for.

      618 days ago

  • Cindy

    Posted a sticky note Saturday night about a new job interview. God answered my prayer the next day!

    618 days ago3 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Cindy

      Yay God!

      618 days ago

    • Elizabeth

      in reply to Cindy

      That’s awesome!

      618 days ago

    • Pam

      in reply to Cindy

      He’s right on time…

      618 days ago

  • Jennifer

    OK, then there’s the control freak like me. Because I love God, I know I should trust Him completely. But (there’s always a “but”), I’m not quite there. That is a problem in itself, but it leads to a larger problem, too. Being unable, or maybe just unwilling yet, to trust Him with everything…I mean EVERYTHING…makes me question my faith. I want to be logical and say that trust and faith are two very distinct things, but if I can’t put all my trust in God to show me the right path, doesn’t that mean I don’t have enough faith in Him as my Father, my Provider, my Shelter?

    618 days ago3 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Jennifer

      It is a daily struggle for each of us. Faith is having confidence that God is who He said He is and will do what He said He’d do. It is matured through experience and practice. Stick with it!

      618 days ago

    • Michelle

      in reply to Jennifer

      Romans 10:17 says that faith comes by hearing the word of God. When we don’t know how to build our faith spending time in His Word and soaking in who He is will build up our confidence and give us the courage to step out of the boat like Peter and walk on water! This has been my experience. The more you know someone the easier it is to trust them. This is as true in our relationship with Christ as it is for our relationships with others.

      618 days ago

    • Alex Williamson

      in reply to Jennifer

      I completely agree with you Jennifer about really loving God, but feel I fall short when I struggle with unbelief-especially when He never fails to come thru! Additionally, I am seeking to agree with Gods Word about a situation or about His opinion toward me rather than look at the circumstance, or by how I feel or think!

      618 days ago

  • Kisha

    I feel like the past two weeks of messages at church have created a much needed Awakening in my life. For the past couple of years I’ve been on a yo-yo journey of making changes in my life and trying to have the motivation to continue with the changes that need to take place. Change is not easy especially when your are comfortable. But I can truly say that I am so happy that God is making me uncomfortable in my comfort. I have been reeling from the past two weekends with thoughts swirling about where to begin this new journey. I don’t know where God is taking me, but I’m so glad that He continues to encourage me to get to that next place in my life so that He can continue to move me and change me in magnificent ways. My heart is open and willing…

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Kisha

      Kisha, Love your wording “making me uncomfortable in my comfort”. I know I find myself struggling with some of the same issues. 2 thingsthat have really helped me, making reading God’s word a priority, and finding the right small group for motivation and accountabiltiy. I’m praying for you and glad you are on the journey

      618 days ago

  • Kelly

    How ironic that Proverbs 3: 5-6 was basis for Brad’s talk yesterday because trusting in God during a dark time when I had absolutely no clue how things could possibly work out ended with us finding a new church home at Northridge. A wise person once told me: “If God were small enough for me to understand, He wouldn’t be big enough to take care of me!”.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Kelly

      Kelly, love that you are with us at NorthRidge!

      618 days ago

  • cherilans

    The talk by Brad this past weekend using the film “Bruce Almighty” was awesome! I’ve seen the film many times before, but my view of trusting Him was made more clear by Brad’s comments about the part where Bruce is having God guess how many fingers he had behind his back but then trying to trick God who then made Bruce have 7 fingers on one hand. It’s so true for me, that though God has shown me multiple times that He is here with me and has answered my prayers, I still fall back into not trusting Him in anxiety producing situations. He can do anything (Iike the 7 fingers), He is all powerful and all knowing. I really need to remember that! He is my best trusted source of wisdom for those reasons. I will continue to seek Him in all my decisions, even minor ones. I will continue to wait to hear from Him before making my own decison even if it’s hard or a long wait. I want to walk closely on the journey with Him by trusting Him fully everyday.The path is clearer than ever thanks to this devotional/Scripture readings. Thanks for having it!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to cherilans

      I’m so glad that it’s helping you on your journey. Anxiety is a tough thing to overcome, but keep at it. So many of us are all in the same boat.

      617 days ago

  • Dave

    I was struck by a comment in Brad’s talk this weekend regarding our relationship with God: “You are God, and I am not!” How powerful, this simple statement. Several years ago I became involved in the NorthRidge Prison Ministry, and I remember my first visit to an individual incarcerated in a Michigan prison. I pulled into the parking lot and realized that I was gripped by fear in that I was not prepared to go in for the visit. I was on the verge of making a very poor decision – thinking that my visit was about me and my qualifications to “do” something right and correct for someone behind the fence. At this moment, through a very humble prayer (which was not my style at this point in my life!), I asked for direction from Him. Immediately following this prayer, the thought regarding Moses and his conversation with God came to mind (Exodus 3:14) “God said to Moses, “I Am Who I Am’. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: :I AM has sent me to you.” My visit to this facility was not about me, it was all about Him. He is God, and I am not. Our Father says to each of us, every day: I will be all that you need Me to be, when you need Me to be, all that you need Me to be!

    618 days ago3 Replies

    • Heather

      in reply to Dave

      Amazing Dave! How beautiful to hear of you being sensitive to the spirit and open to what God was laying on your heart! Wow! Thanks for sharing!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Dave

      Wow. That is such an inspiring story! I have had the opportunity to speak in the woman’s prison a few times and God is definitely at work on the inside! Great way to serve!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Dave

      You got it right Dave! It’s not about us, I also loved that Moses studdered and felt very inadequate for what God was asking him to do. I don’t studder, but do feel the inadequacies alot, then I am reminded, we are the vessels.

      618 days ago

  • Nancy

    Nine years ago I made a choice that I really thought God was leading me to make. Since then, it’s been the most difficult time in my life – yet I have never walked more closely with Him. Sometimes I still wonder if that was really what I was supposed to do, but since I’ve tried to change course without success since then…it must be. Without His word and His presence can’t imagine where I’d be.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Nancy

      It seems like it’s in times of struggle that we cling most tightly to our Heavenly Father. Guess that’s what James 1 is all about.

      618 days ago

  • Kari

    Last year, after a miscarriage, I learned that getting pregnant and staying pregnant would be a physical challenge (near impossible) for my body. I had recently joined a small group and was in the process of introducing myself to God – again as an adult. As I tried to come to terms with the reality that I may not be able to have children of my own – I came across Jer. 29:11. I had found a ring with the verse written in small letters all around the band – I bought it to wear in remembrance of the child I had lost. Later that same day, I stopped into the resource center at Northridge to look for a book or something that might help me deal with the grief I was feeling. When I got home that afternoon I opened the book to a page near the front – and there was Jer. 29:11 – the very same that was on the ring I had purchased earlier in the day. The hair on my arms stood up and I called my mom to share, we both believed it couldn’t be a coincidence – surely it was God.

    Several months later, in the summer of 2010 a good friend saw that I was feeling down – she handed me a note card, on the front it read “She’s the kind of person who looks at a cloud and says to herself, There’s a rainbow coming in just a little while’ – on the inside – Jer. 29:11. I was again floored that it just kept popping up – time and time again. In late August, after quite a few fertility doctor appointments – my husband and I learned I was pregnant again – with twins. Unfortunately, at 8 weeks we lost one of the babies, but by then, I had no doubt that God knew what was best for me – and while I wept for the loss of my baby, I also rejoiced in that I was still carrying a very healthy baby.

    The day before we found out the gender of our unborn baby, I found a BLUE piggy bank in a catalog – on sale no less- on the side of the piggy read….For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord….Jer. 29:11. Come on! Really God? Talk about hitting someone over the head – the next day we learned we were having a boy. On April 1, 2011 – almost a year to the day after we were told we may not be able to have a child – Carter was born… I trusted God to see me through and provide for me, because I knew that only He knows the plan for me, plans that will prosper and not to harm.
    And even with all of this ‘proof’, why do I still struggle to trust Him with other parts of my life – my marriage, my finances, my relationship with friends and family? I look forward to reading this ‘conversation’ and this series – I’m on the journey – thank you for reminding me and slapping me upside the head!

    618 days ago6 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Kari

      Wow Kari, your story brings tears to my eyes. My wife and I have a very similar story and were also blessed with a little miracle. Sometimes I think one of the reasons God gave him to us was as a reminder of His faithfulness and how trustworthy He is.

      618 days ago

    • Val

      in reply to Kari

      Thank you for sharing this with us! What a powerful story.

      618 days ago

    • Elizabeth

      in reply to Kari

      Kari, your story is awesome! I love that verse too, and I agree that I have more than enough proof of His trustworthiness . . . but still find myself trying to handle things as if I’m on my own! Continuing to meet with other believers helps me remember whose I am . . . praying for you as we both journey!

      618 days ago

    • Pam

      in reply to Kari

      THAT is powerful!

      Once upon a time I prayed to God for twins–a boy and a girl. I knew it was a tall order and that as a mere mortal, I did not deserve this gift. This was my faithful prayer ever since I was 24 years old. Twins do not run in my family anyway. Lo and behold on Dec 14, 2000, I found out that I was having a boy AND a girl! They were born May 21, 2001. I would have been happy with one baby but God showed me what faith can do.

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Kari

      Thank you for encouraging others with your journey! Praising God!

      618 days ago

    • LeeAnn

      in reply to Kari

      Thank you for sharing! I cried AND the hair on my arms stood on end by the time I got to the “gender of our baby” paragraph. Of course you know (and knew deep inside) that none of these were coincidences, that God was speaking to you, but that you are a person who, indeed, needed to be “slapped upside the head”! Lots of us are like that, so your story really resonated with me. Keep working on the Trust. It’s a journey, not a moment when we’re DONE. Happy to be on the journey with some new on-ilne brothers and sisters in Christ!

      617 days ago

  • Jill

    Since Saturday I have been really thinking and talking to God about what it would look like in my life to trust God with all my heart. I’ve known Proverbs 3:5-6 since I was a kid, but I’ve never really spent time visualizing it for me in my life. I can see what it looked like in so many lives of the Old Testament – but for me, today, what does it look like? So the question is, what am I worrying about and why not trust God with those things?

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Craig

      in reply to Jill

      One word Faith! With faith comes trust. Please see Josh’s reply to Jennifer, he says it better

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Jill

      Worry is such a good indicator of areas lacking trust. Thanks for the insight.

      618 days ago

  • heather Baxter

    I loved the reminder that God is in charge of the production of our lives. I am trusting ministry dreams to HIM even though I wish I could speed up His plot! He knows BEST! love these series!

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to heather Baxter

      Wouldn’t it be great if we had a remote that allowed us to control God’s timing? Of course, we’d surely mess it all up. I guess that’s why we don’t :)

      618 days ago

    • CathyM

      in reply to heather Baxter

      During a discussion with some friends recently we discussed actively waiting on God: waiting for him to lead us, but serving while we waited. One point that came up was that God uses that time to further develop us into who He wants us to be. God uses this time of waiting to help us become further prepared for what is in store.

      This reminds me of the story of the caterpillar in transition to becoming a butterfly. The butterfly must work its way out of the cocoon in order for its wings to fully develop and give it the ability to fly.

      As difficult as waiting for God’s timing is, it is the only timing worth it.

      617 days ago

  • Zander

    It’s so exciting to me that the this topic of trust came up this weekend at NR. I was wrestling with a bit of stagnation a couple weeks ago and realized I was hindering my own spiritual growth by not yielding 100% in trust to God. I was digging into my new study for the Fall and the topic of being fully open to God came up and I had to honestly ask myself if I really was at this current time of my walk as I was in the past. I realized if I am not being completely open to and trusting Him I am hindering my own growth.

    God showed me that I needed to fully trust and be fully open to what He wants to do to me and through me. So I was reminded of an important point which got me right back on path. As much as we want God to define our own paths its important to remember in order for this to happen we should not get in His way. By not fully trusting you are limiting what He can do for you and with you.

    So Brad’s message this past weekend was right on with where I was and so relevant to where we need to be. Thanks NR for continuing the conversation throughout the week with this type of interactive approach.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Zander

      It’s our pleasure Zander. And thanks so much for the valuable insights.

      618 days ago

  • Natasha

    (IF) I “Trust in the LORD with all my heart and lean not on my own understanding; in all my ways submit to him, (THEN) he will make my paths straight.”

    The Bible is so clear when it comes to God’s promises: IF I do A, THEN God will do B.

    It sounds simple and is so clearly stated and promised, but why is it so hard? I want God’s direction in my life and I know that I will have it if I trust Him with everything. Why is it so hard for me to let go?

    618 days ago5 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Natasha

      As soon as you find that answer, please let me know! :) It is a daily struggle for me too. I MUST let go and give myself over to His will and guidance. He has been so trustworthy in the past, why can’t I always trust Him with the future?

      618 days ago

    • Natasha

      in reply to Natasha

      Exactly! It has to be a daily, conscious decision to trust and submit to Him.

      618 days ago

    • Dave

      in reply to Natasha

      Hello Natasha – I won’t pretend to know what could make your choice to “let go”, easier. God made each of us wonderfully unique, so His purpose for your life is much different than His purpose for mine (this is a good thing!). I can tell you, though, that a significant change came for me, when I stopped thinking so much about myself. When my prayers, actions, and thoughts became more about Him,and other people, my life was transformed. Many years ago a friend told me that “We are blessed to be a blessing”, which at the time, I thought was some form of a cute religious jingle! It wasn’t until much later that I realized that each time I did something out of selfless love for someone else, or by simply thanking God for the basics of life (the air that I breath, the food which I have to eat, etc.), I was blessed. I became closer to Him, and my trust in Him began to grow. Through this whole process, I came to understand that I had been a Christian “consumer” (to use Brad’s words) – when I made the choice to do His will (become His servant, doing His work) rather than mine, I have been able to, gradually; Let go, and let Him!
      Praying for you in your journey!

      618 days ago

    • Sherry

      in reply to Natasha

      I agree with Dave. Focusing on others, rather than myself, REALLY helps! I recently returned to my walk with God, joined a small group, etc. and everything was great, but when things got tough in my job and relationship, I spent less time serving others and focusing only on myself. I prayed, but my prayers were selfish as I tried to ask God to do what I thought was best for me (big mistake, I know now!). Through the loss of that relationship (hopefully temporarily, if it’s God’s will) , I’ve been more present to others. I invited my sister (who hasn’t been to church since 7 years old!) to the service this weekend, have had more time with my nephews who need special time/attention, have considered changing jobs (which I’ve been too afraid to do until now), and the list goes on. As soon as I stopped trying to control and analyze everything and chose to submit to God, the anxiety is (well, ALMOST) gone and I am so much more at peace.

      617 days ago

    • Natasha

      in reply to Natasha

      That is so true! It is amazing what happens when we take the focus off of our own self and turn our eyes to Him and the work that He has called us to do.

      616 days ago

  • Annie Sneddon

    The service this past weekend hit me as well and I am loving what everyone is writing about what God has and is doing for them, For long ago I heard of Northridge when I was living Downriver for my Brother was going to the Church and I went to the Christmas service and I prayed that one day I could go to.
    To make a very long story short, I ask God How can I go I live to far, well now I live in Livonia and I know the fellowship is very important so one night I was sleeping and felt God pushing me out of bed I mean it I could not sleep until I said ok God I will write that e-mail, my husband can not take me for his work schedule will not allow him to go during the fall winter and spring months so God was telling me he would find a way and he was telling me write an e-mail asking for a way to go to the church. I did and I should not be surprised any more by his answers because He always answers. Not only am I now a member of the church but I get to go to womens bible study and he has made a way again for me to go for the fall study. Like the rainbow in the last story and the baby in the last one, each day is a new day that we can all be thankful to God Psalms 118;24. God proves himself over and over again each day we live. This is a journey and I am so thankful that we have each other to remind us of the good times and the times when we are doubful. Also, I liked the service where we do not fill in the blanks!

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Annie Sneddon

      Thanks so much for sharing this inspiring story!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Annie Sneddon

      Annie, so glad you are a part of the Tuesday On-Campus! Your smile brings sunshine to many.

      618 days ago

  • Bernie Ritchey

    It’s funny that even when I ask for God’s direction I usually try to avoid the answer(s) He gives me. I felt like I was being called to do more, so I prayed for God’s direction and it seemed that every book I read or Bible verse that was in my daily reading plan had to do with orphans and widows. I guess I was really hoping for more like “witness on the beaches of the Bahamas” but that apparently wasn’t His plan, so my wife and I sponsored 2 children through World Vision and 6 months later I joined World Vision as a volunteer Child Ambassador.

    Recently I felt like I could and should do more and again it seemed like everything I read had to do with prison missions (still no Bahamas in the cards) so I have signed up for the prison ministry class in October.

    I’ve always heard of people saying that God “spoke to them” or “lead them” but never really understood it because I very seldom felt that feeling. I don’t know if it’s because I wasn’t spending enough time in His word or if I just wasn’t willing to listen. However, these last 2 years God’s presence has been so apparent in my life and Brad’s message was a great reminder to let God lead us even if it isn’t exactly the direction we want it to be.

    618 days ago4 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Bernie Ritchey

      It’s funny how we can practice “selective listening” toward God. BTW, just got the call this morning to witness on the beaches of the Bahamas. Really excited. ;)

      618 days ago

    • Dave

      in reply to Bernie Ritchey

      Hello Bernie – fantastic decision to follow God’s urging to join the prison ministry! He engineers all our circumstances for His purpose, and our good. You will find beauty far greater than a beach in the Bahamas, through working for Him behind the fence!

      618 days ago

    • Bernie Ritchey

      in reply to Bernie Ritchey

      Josh, God may have us mixed up in His rolodex, you may want to double check that calling and forward it on if it was just a mix up ;)

      Dave, Yes, I am looking forward to the prison ministry class, I really struggled with this one before giving in to the message. I was sure this wasn’t really what He wanted but the messages didn’t stop until I signed up for the class. There is no doubt in my mind that this is His will and I am sure that I will find His beauty in it. Thank you!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Bernie Ritchey

      Bernie, you will be blessed by being a part of the prison ministry! I’ve joined the team when they visited the Women’s Prison a coupe of times, and each time walked away with joy overflowing! The NorthRidge team is amazing and the prisoners are an incredible blessing. Several came up to me after the service and said they wait all month for NorthRidge, sometimes giving up their lunch to be there.

      618 days ago

  • Ruthie

    It has taken me years of hard lessons trying to do life my own way. I am so grateful that, when challenges come, I have but one hope and that is to put my trust in God alone. I have a wonderful family and precious friends, but I find peace only when I bundle my burdens up and turn them over to the Lord.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Ruthie

      Love that word picture of tying them up and dropping them in His more that adequate hands.

      618 days ago

  • Judi Jones

    I recently did not get an adjunct teaching job that I was a “shoe-in” for, in spite of giving it my best and having a lot of support. I don’t begin to understand the reason why. I thought surely this time around was “my time”. But I feel like last weekend’s message was important for me. I’m trusting Him with all my heart (at least with this…) although I do not understand. I feel a sense of peace, and I truly believe He has a different path for me. I’m excited at the prospect of what it might be as I continue my walk with Him. So ok, God, I’m listening….

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Judi Jones

      I’m sorry to hear the bad news Judi. But I’m encouraged by your trust in Him through it.

      618 days ago

  • Stephanie

    Not only do I struggle to fully trust God but also just people in general, even those closest to me. I thought I had successfully battled through the insecurities of being hurt again but Sunday’s talk made me realize that I’m still holding pieces of myself back. My rationale is if I don’t let someone fully in my heart than they also can’t hurt me. Within just a few minutes of the start of Brad’s talk, I heard “open your heart Stephanie” in my mind so clearly that it brought tears to my eyes. Since I also don’t trust myself, I have to wonder if that was my own inner voice or God’s. I want so badly to trust God & people close to me but the fear of being hurt again is greater. Rationally, I know what He has planned for me is far greater than anything I can ever imagine but I just can’t get past that last wall of full submission. So this series will be good for me & combined with the David bible study I start tomorrow, I’m praying that He will continue to help me heal & open my heart.

    618 days ago7 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Stephanie

      Stephanie, I’m so encouraged by your continued motion forward. Trust is such a hard thing to give; especially when it’s been broken by someone close to us.

      618 days ago

    • Bonnie

      in reply to Stephanie

      Thank you Stephanie! I can relate to your post more than you could know but when you say you dont trust yourself, that was like a light bulb moment for me. I always felt this “wall” in my heart and knew I wasnt the most trusting person but your words made me realize what I havent admitted is that I dont trust myself to know when its God or my inner voice.

      618 days ago

    • Sandra

      in reply to Stephanie

      Stephanie – I posted this on my ‘Northridge’ blog before I realized we could reply to others. “I’m writing in response to what ‘Stephanie’ wrote. She nailed it for me. That’s absolutely ME! I know there were probably several people that feel the same way that were at the same service this past weekend. I deal with this pain and distraction of not trusting on a daily basis; to the point of it ruining many potential great relationships. I’m looking forward to next weekend’s service already! Stephanie, hang in there! On my sticky note, I wrote ‘RELATIONSHIPS’ … I wonder if you did too!”

      618 days ago

    • Stephanie

      in reply to Stephanie

      Sandra, is that what the sticky note was for? I was at the 5:15 service on Saturday & Brad never said what we were supposed to do with it. Unless my friend & I completely spaced out & missed it? lol

      617 days ago

    • Darlene

      in reply to Stephanie

      Dear Stephanie, Your story really touched me. It looks like God has really opened your eye’s to the truth … I will be praying for you and your courage to step out and trust God so he can
      bless you.. A class that has really helped me over the years is (Boundaries) and Northridge’
      offers it on Monday night at Life Share… God will show you when it is safe to lower your walls.
      Thanks for sharing your story , and how God is working in your life… God Bless

      617 days ago

    • Stephanie

      in reply to Stephanie

      Thanks everyone, you have no idea how far out of my comfort zone I am with putting this out there for everyone to see. But when Brad mentioned this new interactive devotional I just knew it was something I needed to do.

      617 days ago

    • Stephanie

      in reply to Stephanie

      Darlene, I’ve often thought about looking into Boundaries. I’m starting the David series tomorrow so maybe I’ll try Boundaries afterwards.

      617 days ago

  • Noel Bittinger

    Another terrific talk this weekend. Being the movie lovers that we are, we decided that after each talk we will go and watch the movie mentioned at the talk. As a result, we rented Bruce Almighty and watched it last night. Just a few years back I would have watched it and thought it was a nice comedy. Today, my perspective is so different. It made me see that I try to do so much by myself adn get so overwhelmed. I have to learn to stop “kicking the cat” and TRUST HIM more. I am not the Almighty, He is and only through Him can I get out from this constant feeling of overwhelm. I just hired someone who started TODAY to help me get some things off my plate.
    After the talk I have committed to rely on God more and look for the signs He is giving me to slow down and don’t try to do it all myself. I have to get off my high horse and quit being such a control freak!

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Noel Bittinger

      Noel, I love your honesty. It’s so easy to get caught up in taking care of and relying on ourselves. “Your cat” will be happy you are trusting God too : ).

      618 days ago

    • Anne C

      in reply to Noel Bittinger

      Great post Noel and what a cool idea. I haven’t seen Bruce Almighty in a while and I think I’m going to do that too. I think the movie theme that Northridge has chosen is pretty cool because we often do go to the movies and let the entrainment wash over us and forget that with every story there is a point. Great to see how God is working through you too. Thanks :)

      615 days ago

  • Kirk Stevens

    God gave us “free will”, he also gave us the ability to question everything, and to wonder about things. It gets confusing trying to decide whether it is God talking to me, or it is my own thoughts. Doesn’t God expect us to perform according to his will? At what point does he want us to turn off our brain. I watched a video about a couple that hasn’t worked in four years because they were waiting for God to direct them, their family was starving in the meantime. I do put all my trust in God, but I feel that he wants me to get off my rear end and do something. I feel that he can only work through me as long as I am out there doing my part. Cyrus Curtis once said “If you believe in the Lord, he will do half the work, but the last half. He helps those who helps themselves”. Is this true?

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Pam

      in reply to Kirk Stevens

      The hard part is wanting so much to trust God but we get blindsided by our own emotions and fears that we do not see when the gift is given to us. It’s like the man in a flood. He was still on top of his own house after at least 3 boats came by because he was expecting a miracle of God. We have a vision of God in that He does things in such a large way. This is not always true. We know just how we want him to help us and when things happen in His time and in His way, we tend to think that He is far away. If you look at nature and the many quiet things that go on–the gradual changes in temperature, the growth of trees and grass. God’s miracles large and small happen every day and we have to open ourselves to possibility which can be a scary thing. But if it’s not scary or challenging, how do we learn who God really is? Proverbs 3:5 and Psalms 46:10

      618 days ago

    • Angella

      in reply to Kirk Stevens

      Hi Kirk,
      Your message really spoke to me! I too have a fear of waiting on God, but also not wanting to sit so still that I seem lazy – does that make sense? Do I let my (young adult) kids stay with me, while not paying rent, but they don’t have cars, do I buy them one, loan them the money – or WAIT on God to figure it all out? I mean, there’s a line there somewhere right? What’s the line?
      And like a few others have said, how do we know when God’s really talking to us and when it’s ourselves or our own imaginations working inside our feeble brains? I do feel nudged at times, however and have recently started an online Biblical Studies Master’s degree (I’m an engineer, for Pete’s sake!) so I’m pretty sure God had a hand in that one because I just don’t see myself in ministry . But you know what!? I love my class so far! Must have been the right move?
      I agree – God does help those that help themselves, but when things do get to big for us, He’ll always be there to pick us up!
      Thanks for articulating some of what I was feeling,

      617 days ago

  • Chris A.

    Almost 2 yrs. ago I made the decision to move back to Michigan from Florida for a job opportunity (Imagine that!), unfortunately, my family had to stay behind as my wife’s job as a teacher offers the health benefits and the additional income. I thought the job in Michigan was God’s way of opening a door for me, however, it has been a HUGE strain on my family. My wife is not a big fan of cold weather, so moving to Michigan is not on the top of her list. My employment has presented its own challenges, however the company I represent now seems to have the ability to offer me a future, now its about waiting for a door to open for my wife. I have not been handing this over to God as I should be, I’m in a rut, the pain of not being their to see my son and 2 stepchildren grow is a daily struggle. I am often recentful of God, I’m not sure if this is His plan for our lives. Being faithful and obedient has been difficult, I pray that God will reveil to me His plan and that it will include bringing my family back together!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Chad

      in reply to Chris A.

      Chris, just remember that God has a plan for us all. Even though we may not see it or understand it now, we will when the time is right. Being such a long distance from home, and your family, have you thought of or are using Video software so you can see and talk to them (like Skype)? I know it’s not like “being” with them, but it does work. My wife and I use Skype to talk to our step-son in Japan while he is stationed there.

      618 days ago

  • Chad

    Question, if I believe my faith in the lord is strong; I say prayers, I try to do his works, BUT, for some reason or another I am just not able to make his service. I have not made a NRC service in almost 3 months (maybe more), and I feel guilty. Does this make me a bad christian?

    618 days ago7 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Chad

      I think the question you’re asking is, is God mad at me because I don’t go to church? The answer to that question is no. God wants you to grow and desires for you to be around other people trying to follow Christ. It’s about what God wants for you, not from you. It’s tough to move forward and in the right direction without guidance and consistent reminders. Does that make sense?

      618 days ago

    • Chad

      in reply to Chad

      makes perfect sense. But if that’s true why do I feel so guilty all the time? Not to mention that I feel like I’m loosing my relationship with him. I’m but a humbled man seeking to be in God’s favor. I don’t feel as close to him as I did just a few months ago. I really do miss going to NRC, I love the services. I just can’t seem to get the rest of my family involved, and I never want to just go by myself, that to me seems selfish.

      618 days ago

    • Pam

      in reply to Chad

      Service can apply to you talking with others outside the realm of church about Jesus.

      618 days ago

    • Jennifer

      in reply to Chad

      Have you considered looking into a Small Group? I know it’s not a substitute for service, but like Pam said, we do experience God outside the church walls, too! I know when I am with my group, just having the ability to share our faith, our experiences and our questions with each other leads to so much growth. Are you able to check out the services on-line? You might want to try that. Just some ideas…I hate to think of you feeling guilty for not attending service. I know what you mean about the family thing, too. I very often go by myself, as my husband is not a believer, but I am trying to be an example to him and my family. My kids go to church and love it, but I sit at “big church” all by myself almost every Sunday. Don’t let that stop you! Maybe some day we will end up and sit together!

      618 days ago

    • Anne C

      in reply to Chad

      Hi Chad,
      First of all, don’t let the guilt eat at you. There was a time when it was hard for me to go too. I can’t explain it but like you I just felt really guilty and sometimes the guiltier I felt the more I couldn’t find myself going. While this may be a weird thought, its what got me through the door. Northridge is a huge church (duh!) and no one will judge you for not having been there. So as hard as it seems and as awkward as it seem, sometimes the best thing you can do is go.
      believe me, when you do God will be there with open arms. And like Jennifer said, joining a small group will help too. Sometimes its hard to go by yourself because as much as we want to do the right thing, we can’t and we need someone to push us.
      Anyway, I hope my own experience can provide some help.

      615 days ago

    • Chad

      in reply to Chad

      I want to deeply thank you all for you insight. I’m trying to reflect on what Brad said during his Trust God service (watched online), but the thing of it is, is this; there are just so many variables in our lives it’s hard to make the “right” call. I would just love to pick up on a Saturday evening and head to NRC, the place is truly amazing; however, I feel like I’m abandoning my wife and family if I do. If I don’t I feel guilty because in my mind I’m not putting God first. I can’t make my family go with me, but I don’t want to leave them behind. And so goes the struggles through life LOL. I just recently picked up my copy of The Journey and started reading Romans. Hopefully I will receive more insight from God & Christ during my readings. It’s about time I start reading more from the Good Book!

      615 days ago

    • Anne C

      in reply to Chad

      Well know that I wish you the best Chad and hope the one day your family will find that desire to go with you. Till then, God Bless and best wishes!

      615 days ago

  • Tim

    So glad that we are doing a church community-wide study from the book of Proverbs. In my opinion, the most generally underrated book in the Bible. I would encourage anyone who feels like God is distant to tackle a chapter per day (31 chapters, 31 days) and soak up the wisdom. Maybe even journal your thoughts along the way. The result will be a changed outlook on faith and life. Proverbs will always set your perspective back on track – I know it does for me!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Tim

      Wise words Tim! It gets me back on track (if I miss a day I never lose my place :)

      618 days ago

  • suzi

    Trust….such a short word – one syllable and all – but so hard to continually ‘do.’ To trust God with my kids’ safety, my family’s health and financial security, and my future….not easy for one who really likes to be in control. But, God has really always been there for me – I’ve had no real tragedies and had a great childhood, so trust SHOULD come pretty easily. But, of course it doesn’t. I’m also a pragmatist and know that at some point the hammer falls on all of us – major joy stealer. So, of course I was really tuned in on Saturday night and appreciated Brad’s reminder that God’s ways are not our ways and to move forward in my relationship with Jesus trust is a fundamental prerequisite.
    Side-item: My husband and I just relocated here from the west side of MI (St. Joseph, where we lived for 20 years) and really wanted to live in AA where his new office is. Thought is would be fun to live the city life and be in a cool collegiate area for this next chapter of our lives with all the kids out of the house. But after months of looking for a home, we ended up in Plymouth in a big house with a big yard with lots of maintenance….everything we DIDN’T want. HA! Interestingly, when the whole move thing became imminent, I started googling churches in the AA area, and was really drawn to NRC, but thought it was pretty far away and I like to live in the community where we go to church….bc that’s the only way we’ve ever done it. My husband and I had no idea when we bought this house that NRC is less than a mile from our new home. Pretty sure that isn’t just a coincidence.
    How can I not fully trust a God who continues to lead me in the right direction even when I’m not totally tuned in to Him? Looking forward to meeting people at NRC so it doesn’t seem so big and overwhelming. :) I guess this is a good way to start and so are the women’s studies starting on Tuesday. I’ll be there.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to suzi

      Suzi, So glad you will be there Tuesday, so will I, please say Hi. You will meet some amazing women, some have been in almost the exact shoes you are in right now. As far as trust, in my own life I can look back and its been some of the major challenges that have grown trust in Him, seeing that He truly is faithful. I think that’s why I’m enjoying this “conversation” so much. See ya tomorrow

      617 days ago

  • Schel

    With all of the craziness of this world, trusting in God and knowing that even though I may not understand why things happen, HE is IN CONTROL, is the only way I could get through each day without being stressed and worried all of the time. I don’t know how “non-believer’s” do it!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Schel

      So true Schel!

      617 days ago

  • Steve

    I can relate to the post from Chris A. Like Chris, I’m experiencing the same challenge of being in a rut. Over three years ago, I lost a good paying position due to downsizing. I’ve networked, sent resumes and interviewed with a number of reputable companies. My father is in his late 80s and leaving the Midwest is not a desirable option. In the meantime, I’m working at a job that’s less than half my former salary. Fortunately, I have a loving Christian wife who sticks with me. I even read the bible, including Proverbs, pray and try to stay alert to His word on a regular basis. Unfortunately it consistently seems the blessings from God go to others. Also like Chris, being faithful and obedient have been difficult,The whole trust factor seems to be under assault. I feel like David in Psalm 143 crying for mercy or most of the book of Job where everything I once had was taken away from me. I hope and pray that God will restore me like he did to David and Job soon. Brad’s message of trust could have not come at a better time.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • CathyM

      in reply to Steve

      Steve, it is interesting that you mention Psalm 143 and David’s cry to God. I love verse 8 which says, “Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul. ” How fitting.

      I pray that God will reveal His purpose in this situation and that He will bless you with a job that will meet the needs of your family very soon.

      617 days ago

  • Karin

    I’ve been unemployed since May 31, 2011. As soon as I lost my job, my parents came to visit from Florida for the summer, they’re in their 80′s and having some health issues. It was a nice to spend the summer with them and addition spending great time with my 16 year old daughter (as I’ve always worked). Now they have left and my daughter is back at school and I’ve been unsuccessful finding a job, and feeling a little blue about it!

    After Brad’s message, I posted my sticky note on the wall; “God send me a job that I’ll be good at”. I’ve been praying everyday and letting God know that I have trust in him and I turn it over to him. Well, this morning, I received a phone call from the company I worked for as a contractor………….they have a new assignment for me starting as early as Wednesday! Thank you Jesus!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Karin

      That is great new Karin! I’m praising God with you!

      617 days ago

  • Pam P

    I felt so connected this weekend. Brad really made his point. I have not been trusting in God as I should have and I am seriously trying to put all my trust in Him. I think maybe I’m not listening for the responses and I am opening my heart to receive the answers to the questions I have asked. Sometimes the answers are in front of us and we choose not to see them. God has led me also in directions that I don’t really want to go, only to find out that was the best way to go. Circumstances also led me to a church home at NRC, and I find every service touches my heart and brings me home. I needed my church family this weekend as the overwhelming sadness of 911 was almost too much. I did not have any close family or friends there but I was sad nonetheless. The comfort that I found in the sermon has eased my heart and renewed my spirit. Thank you.

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Pam P

      It was good to be with fellow believers during the10 year anniversary of such a tragic time. I have been following God for awhile and have history of not thinking His way was what I should do, but of course, when I have chosen to step out in faith I look back and I see His hand, it has taught me to trust Him more.

      617 days ago

  • Chris A.

    I have found that the way he works is not always flashy with bright colors and loud sounds. But they do work, which is more than you can say for most flashy and bright colored things. The problem I run into is that I am TERRIBLE with structure or keeping “on track”. If someone says “read x each day” I usually only hit that about 40% of the time. I believe it is because these types of ideas stuff God into a box. Into a “time slot” of 8AM every day read chapters xxx then forget about it the rest of the day.

    “But forget all that- it is nothing compared to what I am going to do. For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?” Isaiah 43:18

    I am now taking my reading and bunching it up into tiny little bits and read every day at the start of my day (6 AM) during my lunch hour (noon) and in the evening (6PM) and had INCREDIBLE success with it. These “bite sized bible bits” keep the Lord at the top of my mind all day and though I may be reading LESS each day it has had a LARGER impact on my life than reading two chapters every day at 8 AM.

    If people read bible passages as often as they check their phone for a txt the world would be an entirely different place.

    618 days ago3 Replies

    • Chris A.

      in reply to Chris A.

      BTW- I’m a different Chris A. than the one above!

      618 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Chris A.

      Chris, I’m so glad you have found what works for you. I think the goal is to find just that, what works. Too bad don’t focus on scripture as much as we do using our phones. YouVersion Bible app. has helped me keep on track.

      617 days ago

    • Pam

      in reply to Chris A.

      “I have found that the way he works is not always flashy with bright colors and loud sounds.” A big AMEN to that!

      617 days ago

  • Judy

    Boy, can I identify with those who desire with all of their being to trust God with their whole heart, mind soul and strength…yet can not for the life of them “surrender” as they need to. I do not know your past, but it is often the case that if your trust has been violated in the past by those in authority over you…. especially if that trust was violated at a young age…..it makes it VERY difficult to trust God. You know in your head that God is faithful, and loving (after all, He died on the cross for you). You KNOW in your head that He is all powerful and you know in your head it is just plain dumb to not trust Him…..But when push comes to shove….you can not or will not trust Him. That head knowledge can’t get to a heart knowledge that makes it possible to surrender to Him fully. What helps me is to focus on verses that speak of His Love and Strength. Ps.62:11 “One thing God has spoken, two things have I heard: that you, O God, are strong, and that you, O Lord , are loving. “: Jer.9:24: the Lord delights in steadfast love, justice and righteousness in the earth.: Is.61: He has come to set the captives free and release the prisoners from darkness. vs.8 : for I the Lord love justice.
    Sit quietly with HIM and ask HIM to bring HIS character to your heart. Then and only then will you be able to fully surrender in joy to HIM. I will be praying for you!!

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Bonnie Rozevink

      in reply to Judy

      Thank you Judy!!! I WANT to completely trust him with everything

      618 days ago

    • Bonnie Rozevink

      in reply to Judy

      ….but have no idea how to get it from my head to my heart. im very discouraged.

      618 days ago

  • Patrice W

    I have sensed for a long time that God has called me into full time ministry. Recently I submitted my mind to the idea that that would be what my future holds and that I wont be fulfilled until I give in to that reality. THE PROBLEM is I have no idea what to do next. I am going to school to become a teacher (after having completed two degrees and worked in student ministry for a spell) and I am clueless. Meanwhile I am not working, my family is struggling financially and I am not/cannot contribute. I have no doubt that in lean times $wise God can provide. I know I am supposed to trust in the Lord with all my heart and lean not to my own understanding but WHAT DOES THAT LOOK LIKE IN MY SITUATION PRACTICALLY? I am so frustrated because I want to do what God wants me to do but I never feel sure that I am doing the right thing at any moment. I just need a first step.

    618 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Patrice W

      Such a tough question to answer. I’ve starting making silence and solitude a part of my regular routine. It’s pretty difficult but the book I’m reading talked about river water caught in a jar. As long as it’s moving and shaken up, it remains cloudy and difficult to see through. However, the longer it sits still, the more everything settles and the clearer things become. I hope that helps you.

      618 days ago

    • Kirk Stevens

      in reply to Patrice W

      Patricia, I know your pain, but, make sure you are doing what God wants you to do, not what you want to do. Going into the ministry feels like the most noble job one can do for God, but maybe, just maybe, God needs you to do other things. My wife was a teacher for 30 years, she lost her job because the school closed. When God didn’t provide her with another teaching job she got very frustrated. She kept asking, why wouldn’t God want me to teach the children? I suggested to her that she should not try to out-think God. What seems like a perfect fit to us doesn’t necessarily mean that is God’s plan. I am certainly not suggesting that you give up, but that you let God do what he does best. Keep working toward ministry, but remain flexible. God will provide, the bills will get paid, and things will work out for you. I would suggest that you talk to people, anyone and everyone. You just spoke to a lot of people , like myself, who never knew you even existed. God works through people that is why he speaks of relationships so often, and, the more contacts you have, the faster things will happen. Trusting in God means letting go of the remote control 100%. Remember, God opens doors (opportunities), but you have to walk through them, or he can’t help you. Sometimes the door he opens doesn’t make any sense, but trust means that you have to walk through them anyway, even when it seems totally contrary to your feelings.

      617 days ago

  • Bonnie Rozevink

    I know it in my head. How to I connect it to my heart? How can I trust myself that I will be able to recognize the answers?

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Bonnie Rozevink

      Something that is always a sure thing: God’s will never conflicts with God’s word. I would seek wise counsel as well.

      618 days ago

  • Sandra

    I’m writing in response to what ‘Stephanie’ wrote. She nailed it for me. That’s absolutely ME! I know there were probably several people that feel the same way that were at the same service this past weekend. I deal with this pain and distraction of not trusting on a daily basis; to the point of it ruining many potential great relationships. I’m looking forward to next weekend’s service already! Stephanie, hang in there! On my sticky note, I wrote ‘RELATIONSHIPS’ … I wonder if you did too!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Sandra

      Great encouragement! BTW, if you would like to reply to a specific post you can click the “reply” link under their comment. That way you’ll be sure she reads it. Just and FYI as we’re all learning about this new area. :)

      617 days ago

  • Sherrie

    So happy about this new devotional. I’ve always felt that the message I hear on Saturday/Sunday carried me through the week – this is so much more. Just what I needed at just the right time! It’s a God thing! Thanks!

    618 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Sherrie

      Glad you are taking part Sherrie! It’s that step by step journey we can encourage each other on.

      618 days ago

  • Jeehan Lee

    Thank you for your (I mean “all of our church staff”) hard work to serve God and His church. From the last week sermon, Brad talked about choosing to open our eyes, hearts, and minds. Actually, I wish I know the practical way to do those things, because it is hard to grasp invisible things. Would you tell me the differences among heart, mind, soul, and sprit?

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Jeehan Lee

      Really great question. This is how I understand it. I would love other insights as well.

      Eyes are what we put in front of us and what we choose to see. We can choose not to be aware of what’s happening around us or we can see things through the lens of our relationship with Jesus.

      Heart is our emotions, mood, and attitude. God has so much to say about guarding our hearts and the relationship between our hearts and what comes out of mouths.

      I would put soul and spirit in the same category for the sake of this discussion. It is the eternal part of us that lives on beyond this earthly body and the part that connects with and communicates in our most inner self. It is where our conscience resides and the part of us with which the Holy Spirit interacts.

      I hope this helps.

      617 days ago

  • Gregg M.

    God wants our faith in him and that requires our trust in his will. Though we may not understand why everything happens for a reason according to his will.

    Romans 14:18 For he who serves Christ in this is well pleasing to God and approved by men.
    Romans 14:19 So then let us pursue the things of peace and the things for building up one another.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Gregg M.

      Great verses. Imagine if we all pursued things that brought peace and built up the people we were around!

      617 days ago

  • Michelle

    Trust has always been a sensitive issue for me. Since coming to NRC I have learned to trust people more and let them in. A very large trust issue for me was going back to school to get my degree in counseling because I did not trust myself and I thought about a lot of reasons why I would not be able to do it. But I knew that I was being led into counseling. So I decided to trust God and He has taken me places I would never have dreamed of going on my own and I have a new deeper relationship with Him because of this trust. Thank you NRC.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Michelle

      Thanks so much for sharing a piece of your story. That’s awesome and encouraging!

      617 days ago

  • Mikala

    Wow! This has been so inspirational for me! Everything that has been written hits home! I love the Lord so dearly, with all of my heart, yet trust, faith and obedience are the biggest challenges for me. I have realized throughout these readings how difficult I make things for myself. Being a single mom, putting my kids back in school, managing my finances and now having to find a place to live in a matter of 3 months, I have been relying on myself!! I don’t have any family to rely on, and never have, so I think that makes it more difficult for me to relinquish control! I feel I have to figure it all out! My biggest fear, and challenge of letting go is……what if he doesn’t come through? what if things don’t work out? I have been told though, time and time again, all I have to do is ask for God’s guidance, will in my life and direction. I am looking forward to Brad’s series!

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Mikala

      Me too! Thanks so much for sharing!

      617 days ago

  • Greg I.

    Really like the new idea….when we don’t have an opportunity to meet with our small group…this is going to be a wonderful resource!!

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Greg I.

      Totally. Glad to hear you’re in a small group. Definitely a GREAT place to grow and develop.

      617 days ago

  • CathyM

    When I was a kid I remember my church building a new building. The site was all boarded up, but there were little holes in the boards to allow us to see what was going on on the construction site. I could only see the limited areas that the hole would allow me to see.

    That construction site reminds me of how God works. I can only see very limited portions of the construction zone of my life, but since he is the manager of the project he can see the entire lay of the land. Who better to guide the process of the construction than the one who sees it all and wants what is best? I hope each and every day that I can trust in my Abba Father to keep control of the work zone of my life. Like Brad said, it’s a daily choice.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to CathyM

      What a great object lesson. Thanks for encouraging us with this.

      617 days ago

  • Curt

    Two of the best things I can say I ever had happen to me were getting baptized at NRC and becomming a member. No regrets.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Curt

      That is humbling, as a staff member, and encouraging to me as a Christian. Thanks so much for sharing it!

      617 days ago

  • Russ F

    Well where do i always seem to not trust the heavenly father, at work! That’s a no brainer, I know for a fact that he gifted me with the use of my hands!
    In my marriage? again he gifted me with my beautiful bride of 30years!
    The giving of his only son, no i know for fact that Jesus died and returned from the dead to save a fool such as myself.
    Well let me tell you this, I just recently applied to Regent University, I love to learn, so whats the problem?
    What is it that i just cant seem to shake?
    MY ONLY THOUGHT!
    HOW ARE YOU GOING TO PAY FOR THIS!!!!!
    Something keeps touching me, telling me this is my course!
    I get this over-welming feeling of joy, like a child heading for recess.
    But almost as that feeling arrives its driven away by the cost factor!
    I don’t understand why i do this? Every time I have needed extra funds to take care of bills I somehow pick up extra hours at work!
    So why can’t I just trust God with this!

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Russ F

      It is a constant struggle for most of us — probably all of us if we were honest — at different points in our lives. Just prayed that God will continue to strengthen your resolve to trust Him!

      617 days ago

  • David

    This whole movement with NRC couldn’t have come at a better time for me.

    I’ve been willing to trust God in a lot of areas, but always had a tough grip on my finances. In regard to “owing” some back-tithe. I got lazy, and didn’t tithe, but oddly enough kept track of it, in hopes of “someday” paying it back.
    Through this message I realized that despite having the money (a substantial amount for myself) I was holding on to it “in-case.” I just wasn’t trusting God with it. So when i did a final total, and was shocked, i put a note at the end of it, knowing I would waffle in my desire to pay it. And all the note said was “Do I trust God?” Then tonight, I saw the note again and knew what I had to do. I’m proud to say I cut that check, and while it does sting a bit, I feel better knowing that is one less thing I have to worry or feel guilty about.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to David

      . . . Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:6-7.

      This was the verse I memorized last week. Thought you might enjoy it. It’s amazing our closely tied our checkbooks and hearts are. I guess God wasn’t kidding when He said, “Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”

      Proud of you man. That’s a tough act of faith.

      617 days ago

  • Shelley

    Unfortunately I was unable to attend the service this weekend, sounds like it was powerful.
    My brother in law had collapsed last week from cardiac arrest, he was in an unconscious/coma state for 5 days, I sought doctors, friends, family anyone that I thought might be able to help me know what to expect, what the outcome would be. I found the answer right where I always eventually find it; in the bible. “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” Romans 12:12
    I have learned I don’t need to know the next step, the process or the outcome I just need to remember God is always with me and I can find his Promise and Grace in scripture.
    By the way my brother in law is awake, sitting up, talking and remembers everyones names.
    God is ALWAYS faithful, we need to be too!
    Shelley

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Shelley

      Wow, Shelley. I’m SO glad to hear that. Yay God!

      617 days ago

  • Schel

    Love the devitional but wish you would put it out earlier for us “early birds”. This is a great way to start the day!

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Schel

      What would “earlier” look like?

      617 days ago

  • Kathy

    We fail to trust God because we dont trust ourselves. We limit God because we view ourselves as limited beings. God said that with Him all things are possible. We dont trust Him because we dont know His promises. If we do know His promises, we dont believe them. God blessed us when He created us. That blessing was restored by Christ through His resurrection. We are the body of Christ. Christ is the head. The body has the same power as Christ because Christ gave us His power. He gave us the authority to use His name. He triumphed over all works of darkness. The book of Ephesians tells believers that we are seated at the right of the Father far above powers, principalities, rulers of darkness. FAR ABOVE. Its time we as believers wake up and realize we dont trust God because we dont know that we have overcome by the blood of the lamb. We must BELIEVE ONLY and do as Jesus did-say only what God says. The power of LIFE and DEATH is in the tongue. Start speaking life and you will reap life. Many believers fail to see that they are the righteousness of God. How can we not trust a God who has no record of lost, failure, or defeat. There’s Nothing to great for God’s power and Nothing too small for God’s love. We are the redeemed.

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Kathy

      Yikes Kathy, you sure said a mouthful! All really good stuff. I can tell you are passionate about Jesus. What an encouragement!

      617 days ago

  • karen

    I cannot say enough about Pastor Brad and the family at Northridge. Every week is so good. My car was stolen at my work 2 weeks ago. i certainly did not handle the situation well. Instead of trusting God, I have let fear and worry and anger come all around me. Being at the last 2 services has really got me back on track to trust God that he will make a way for me. i am believing him to work this situation out for me. I don’t know all the “details” on how, but my God is my provider and I fully trust in him to take care of me. It’s so good to have found a church family that encourages and supports and genuinely cares about people. I know with God, all things are possible. Reading all the letters that have been posted is so awesome. It really puts things in perspective. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and soul and lean not on your own understanding!!!!!

    617 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to karen

      Karen, I’m sorry to hear about your car but am loving the way God is using it to shape you.

      617 days ago

    • karen

      in reply to karen

      it’s funny that you say that because i am reading a devotional from joel osteen and today’s reading is about thanking God for what you have and not what you don’t have., i am very thankful i have a roof over my head, a job to go to and 2 awesome boys who are a
      true blessing to me. God is definitely working in me to change my character and thinking pattern. I am gong to stand firm and believe what God says.

      616 days ago

  • Gary

    “It is not the uniqueness of ‘Christianity’ as a system that we defend, but the uniqueness of Christ. …
    So, because in no other person but Jesus of Nazareth did God first become human (in his birth),
    then bear our sins (in his death), then conquer death (in his resurrection) and then enter his people (by his Spirit), he is uniquely able to save sinners. Nobody else has his qualifications.”
    Yet I struggle to TRUST, Him with things I convince myself I should be handling.. Than I looked back after the Holy Spirit moved me and clearly saw those “things” I am attemptiing top handle have been a ball and chain around my ankle ever since! So I am trully focused on TRUSTING and understanding the word trust as the Lord would teach us!!

    617 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Gary

      Gary, you are not alone in having to make it a constant focus and effort. Keep it up!

      617 days ago

  • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

    It was April 15th, 2010 when the Iceland Volcano shut down all of the airports in Europe. I happen to be leading an Orphanage trip in Romania when I received the word that all the flights were cancelled, I will admit I was scared, feeling responsible for the team being away from family, not knowing future, etc.
    Here is the devotion I had that very night Psalms 46:1 “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. 2 Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, 3 though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.”
    My trust has grown because I know beyond a shadow of a doubt God knows what we are going through.
    To Him be all the glory, honor, and praise!

    617 days ago

  • Sherry

    Now that I’m being hit from MANY directions (thanks Brad and Josh!) to have faith, trust, etc. in God and have submitted to this idea, how do I quiet my analytical mind so I can “hear” His guidance? I am constantly “analyzing” signs, messages, etc. (I LOVED the “signs” part in the film clip this weekend!), but am so confused now. As many above have said, this is not as easy as just making up my mind to follow God’s lead.

    617 days ago2 Replies

    • LeeAnn

      in reply to Sherry

      I, too, am highly analytical, Sherry–always looking for signs as to what God wants me to do! I could see those signs only when I learned to recognize HOW God speaks to me. He talks to me through trusted friends who know scripture and know Him, and who provide thoughtful, prayerful perspectives and not just self-ascribed opinions. Also, I wake up in the night, and write on a notepad the words that come to me, as I believe God speaks to me in the night, when my analytical brain finally shuts down and lets Him in. These in-the-night thoughts that awaken me are consistent with scripture and the nature of God, so I’m confident they are His words and not mine. We attend NR on Saturday, and I am a worship leader elsewhere on Sundays, and every time I incorporate these middle-of-the-night words in the service, my interactions are flooded by people telling me how the opening 2-minutes spoke to them. Every time! So maybe part of it, for you, is figuring out HOW God speaks to you. What are the “signs” that he is giving you. I once told a friend, “I need a lightning bolt here … nothing subtle.” I’m wondering if that’s you, too?! I think the key might be that even though it is not as easy as “just making up my mind to follow God’s lead,” the key is that it is a new commitment every morning.

      616 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Sherry

      I’ve been reading a book recently called “Invitation to Solitude and Silence” by Ruth Haley Barton and it has really opened my eyes to the value of scheduled and consistent time in which I am doing nothing but listening for the voice of God. In practicing this I’ve found I have a hard time with doing nothing but it is in those moments of stillness that the distractions go away and I can hear more clearly. I highly recommend the book.

      616 days ago

  • TOM

    Trust in the Lord with all your heart and no matter what he will make your paths straight, for me it`s quite simple, if I lean on my own understanding “which I unfortunately do during the course of a day” things “life” unravels at a pace I cannot keep up with and I can become bitter, angry, fearful unflinching all of which really doesn`t help in the least bit & not the lest of which is Me ! having my own personal battle in my own valley of Megiddo by myself is crazy especially in this messed up world, acting alone is needless to say frightening, until always that still small voice arises and makes the comfort and guidance significantly easier ! everyday I pray or have some communication with God, {good thing cause I don`t talk to many intimately} including sitting in the back at the Ridge during services generally alone ! In reality I cannot thank Brad enough for the teaching he has been so consistent with ” I feel as though he is talking directly at, to me” and I am forever grateful for that, if not {I`d be nuts like the rest of the world, like crazy in the bushes nuts} ! Trust in God–Let me give you some insight into my world just in the last 6 years since being at Northridge and why I truly do Trust in God ! —–

    I was on the verge of divorce when I started coming to the Ridge, 6 years ago, I finally asked my wife for a divorce and the following day she had a massive stroke, and was given a 15% chance of living, after 45 Days in ICU, I can say she is very much alive and although it has been a journey to say the least she is alive and I have never left her side {TRUST IN GOD} and the people associated with Northridge have helped me directly and indirectly to walk through this with her including Brad who happened to be walking out of the cafe one Sat nite on the way to preach and he nodded and said hi, how are you ? I replied tired, he said me too, I told him I got you beat, explained that my wife had a stroke and may die a few days ago, HE set down his Coffee, He prayed for my wife and for God to give me Strength, while the band was playing {Trust in GOD} I don`t believe in coincidence and told me anything we can do let me know !

    Well my wife is doing as well as she can and truly grateful to be alive, and the Medical bills and everything else associated with her stroke, well I lost my house after a half million in bills I could not handle, well after 5 years in a new apt, we were fortunate to have purchased a new house with my son and daughter in law and new grandchild, a month after signing the new Mortgage, my Son Promptly lost his Job, but were ok and the Bills and house are paid for {trust in God}, my job is doing well and I am grateful for it with outstanding Med Insurance,

    A year ago, my 24 yr old Daughter Died Suddenly and was devastating t say the least, I had to Identify her body and tell my wife, needless to say I thought it may trigger another tragedy with my wife`s health, I prayed very hard and did my best to console my wife and DIDNT SAY anything to anyone about how I felt about this situation except to { TRUST IN GOD }, again Northridge was my sanctuary and although I don`t talk much I was comforted by just being there and listening very acutely to guide me through this time of difficulty, I have come to the conclusion to just {TRUST IN GOD}, some questions are and will be answered, some not, it does get better not easier—also during this time my youngest Son got himself in a world of trouble with Drugs which anded him in Prison for 5 years, and the one thing I reminded him of was to {TRUST IN GOD}——Thats a quick synopsis of the last 6 years, so all in all not to bad “just life” don`t get me wrong there have been some wonderful days times as well, my wife and I were Baptized almost 4 years ago so we know ultimately our ETERNITY is sealed, thats why in spite of me thinking I am alone, inspite of my daily failures, {NOT FINAL} my behavior that is awful, language that is foul, thoughts that are needless to say impure, I know {TRUSTING IN GOD} is the only way for me to actually LIVE & BELIEVE EVERYDAY, My ROCK AND MY SALVATION___THANK GOD

    616 days ago3 Replies

    • Bernie Ritchey

      in reply to TOM

      Wow Tom, what a story of keeping your faith through adversity! It seems that many walk away from Him when they need Him most, but you obviously took the path of David “I have heard the slander of many, terror is on every side; while they took counsel together against me, they schemed to take away my life. But as for me, I trust in You, O LORD, I say, ‘You are my God.’ My times are in Your hand; deliver me from the hand of my enemies” (Ps. 31:13–15). You are an inspiration and you and your family are in our prayers!

      616 days ago

    • Jennifer

      in reply to TOM

      Thank you so much for sharing, Tom. It’s people like you who inspire me when my little troubles seem overwhelming. I’m so, so glad God has held you up through all of this.

      616 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to TOM

      Wow Tom. You sure have lived a ton of life. I’m so inspired by the fingerprint of God throughout what could easily be seen as a difficult and tragic story. God is so faithful.

      615 days ago

  • Susie

    I know that God is trustworthy in my head. I feel that God is trustworthy in my heart. His scripture proves His trustworthy-ness. I have never outwardly questioned these things and yet I am a “fixer, solver, planner,…controller”. However, I am NOT God. He does know better. So, how do I walk this out daily? I asked Him to show me. I read His word every day trying to know Him more, trying to replace my thoughts with His thoughts, my ways with His ways. Isn’t that what it is about? If we can think and act like our Father, life would be amazing even with struggle and pain.
    My sticky note read, “kids & finances”. Why do I think I can protect them better than He can? He loves them even more than I do. Why do I think I need to “find” the money we need? He owns all the resources in heaven and on earth. HE IS MY FATHER. HE LOVES ME!
    Today, I let my son walk by himself several blocks. Not protected by me but by his heavenly Father. I trusted….today. What will I trust Him for tomorrow?

    616 days ago

  • Mark J Hudson

    How do you know who to trust? Just because they can identify with your pain, How do you know if they have your best interest at heart?

    616 days ago2 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Mark J Hudson

      What an excellent question. I sense it may come from a place where trust has been given and abused in the past. If that’s the case, I know that’s hard and I’m sorry.

      The way I see it, trust is earned over years and lost in moments. Here are a few things I’ve done when evaluating the trustworthiness of a person.
      – Are they trusted by people I trust and/or respect?
      – Is there a self-serving motive behind gaining my trust?
      – Has this person demonstrated honesty/integrity in the little things?
      – Does this person talk to me in a bad way about other people? If they talk to you about others, they will talk to others about you.
      – What’s their track record? If it’s not good, what has changed and how has the change been observed over time?

      Incidentally, these are all good reasons to trust in the LORD.
      – Some of the most respected people in this world trust Jesus.
      – God has nothing to gain from you by you trusting Him. If you don’t trust Him, He’s still God.
      – God has demonstrated faithfulness in the smallest of details.
      – Of course not!
      – God has been interacting with His people over the course of all human history. He has been the same, yesterday, today, and will be the same tomorrow.

      616 days ago

    • Janice Riley

      in reply to Mark J Hudson

      Pray, Pray, Pray, communicate, communicate, and communicate

      615 days ago

  • Cindy Houtz

    It seems, by not trusting God, that we just continue to ‘try to work things out’ ourselves… still believing that we know what is best (trying to be little gods or just not understanding God’s ways- naive little children). We have this propensity for wandering off from God. (same thing as Adam & Eve did). Mark 12:24 “Jesus said to them, Is not this where you wander out of the way and go wrong, because you know neither the Scriptures or the power of God?” We should stop trying to pull the cart– just load the wagon. Concentrate on giving God our first fruits daily (time, treasure and tallents- make Him our first love in life) and leaving everything else in God’s hands. If we heed what He says, we will have His wonderful peace and all His benefits– in all circumstances. This is truth.

    615 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Cindy Houtz

      Well said. Thanks Cindy!

      614 days ago

  • Nicole Cripps

    Start with the little things.

    I read somewhere that a good way to build trust with children is to listen to them- even when it comes to seemingly insignificant things. Why not start there with God? I’m learning to talk to Him about the small things and in turn, my trust in Him for the big things is growing.

    615 days ago3 Replies

    • Anne C

      in reply to Nicole Cripps

      Great point Nicole. I think I often struggle with trusting God because we’re told to surrender all to Him. While I sincerely wish I could all the time, if I’m out of practice with the little things, how could I sincerely trust Him with the big stuff?

      615 days ago

    • CathyM

      in reply to Nicole Cripps

      One of the lies of the enemy is that God doesn’t have time for the little stuff; we shouldn’t bother him with it. There have been many times when I can’t find something unimportant but still take the time to pray. I don’t usually find what I am looking for until I pray. Nicole, you are on the right track in trusting in the little things. It is wonderful to know that our Abba Father is trustworthy in all of it!

      615 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderBill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      in reply to Nicole Cripps

      Nicole…the little things are where that foundation of faith is built! Great job!

      614 days ago

  • Janice Riley

    Trust and dependency on God are the hardest barriers to overcome on our spiritual journey. Trust and dependency are layered similar to denial and those elements tend to grow in phases as we seek to overcome challenges through our faith and repentence. We cannot repent without trusting God. So many people feel unloved by God and cannot then love another human being in the way God intended us to love each other. In my life, love is the most important fruit of the spirit to seek to master on my spiritual journey within my body, mind, and inner healing self (human spirit). Our spirits become so damanged from sin, mistakes, and negativity we put upon ourselves as we react to the world and people instead of responding with love as God would intend us to do. The more I trust God, the more I heal, the more I take His glory in my grief, emotional pain and physical challenges. I am a different better person each day I seek to adhere to His guidance. Obedience becomes effortless in most situations. I am in a place I never thought I would ever be in my life. And I only give that glory to Christ. I used to live within the crucifixion. I am finally somewhere, in the beginning journey of the resurrection. And all I can do each day is throw myself at His feet in thanksgiving for this surrender. I urge people to minister to others. Find that courage as a way of giving back to Christ for all He does for us each day. Do not think you are being pushy or self righteous, or sounding “unqualified” to minister, if you speak from your heart, read a scripture and put it into your own words. Nonbelievers will not know your are speaking from scripture and His Word made flesh has that supernatural quality and you will see it in their eyes. It’s so beautiful. Keep giving.

    615 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Janice Riley

      Whoo. Amen.

      615 days ago

  • Chris

    I’ve been struggling with the desire to join a small group for a while but not sure how to do it. I feel like part of this message is telling me to just Trust God and do it and the answers of how it will all work out will come later.
    My situation: I am a full time teacher, I have 2 young children and a husband who works a swing shift that has him on 1 day, 2 afternoon, 2 midnights, 2 days off, and his whole schedule shifts by 2 days each month. Most nights I could make a meeting on his midnight’s or days off as long as he doesn’t have some type of overtime, but since they change monthly I am unsure how to regularly attend a small group. We don’t have the finances for me to hire a babysitter once a week when his schedule doesn’t work out so I just continue not joining. Perhaps for now this can be my small group. Or maybe I need to Trust God to provide either the babysitting money, or join a couple different groups so I always have one to go to no matter what his days off are?
    I can’t ever make a decision so I put it off and put it off, and another year has gone by where I just go on Sunday because that is the only time I know I’ll have childcare.
    It is stuff like this that I really struggle with trust. I spend so much time trying to work my way through every possible situation, solution, scenerio, etc. I try to figure out the outcome of every one and it is a lot of work, stress, and worry. I don’t even trust myself with these decisions, Trusting God is even harder.

    615 days ago5 Replies

    • Conversation LeaderJosh (Social Media Pastor)

      in reply to Chris

      Chris, it can be such a hard thing to fit something else into an otherwise busy life. I feel for you. Have you looked at MOPS or MP3 or women’s Bible Study on Tuesday morning? They are great environments and have child care available. You can get more info at http://www.NorthRidgeChurch.com/Women. Maybe one of those options will work for you.

      615 days ago

    • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

      in reply to Chris

      Chris, I will ditto what Josh said, any of our On-Campus groups would love to have you. Don’t get stuck in why you can’t, I say just try. Let me know if you need help getting connected.

      614 days ago

    • Val

      in reply to Chris

      I may be mistaken, but if you’re a full-time teacher I’m thinking you would not be available for any of the morning on-campus groups that provide childcare. I’m wondering if you’ve inquired specifically about joining an off-campus women’s small group that includes children. Another option might be a LifeShare support group that meets on Monday nights.Childcare is available for a nominal fee.

      614 days ago

    • Jennifer

      in reply to Chris

      Hi Chris! You may want to look further into small groups in your area, as some are kid-friendly! There are 9 women in the group that I lead, and we have kids that range in age from 15 years to 3 months, and the girls know all kids are welcome at my house. Usually, the kids just come in their jammies, we put in a kid-friendly movie, and they are content to be together while we have our time. I know I wouldn’t have been able to be involved in Small Groups had options like this not been available, so it might be a good idea to just dig a little bit deeper and get some more information. I wish you well, as Small Group is a huge, enormous, uplifting part of my life. I hope you find yours, too.

      614 days ago

    • Chris

      in reply to Chris

      Yes Val, you are right, I have been invited to both MOPS and MP3 and I cannot be involved in anything in the morning, and the evening MOPS does not have childcare. I have left messages online and been called about small groups and nobody has been able to point out groups in the Westland area (surrounding cities are do-able too) that are kid friendly. I have filled out what I am looking for on the response card and someone has called me back but when I tell the my situation they havn’t had the information necessary to help me. When I get some time where my husband is home so that I can make phone calls at a decent hour I will just start calling all of the groups in my area asking if they are kid friendly. Thank you Jennifer for giving me hope that they are out there :-)

      Thanks everyone…even this site makes me feel more connected than I have been feeling! I thank God every week for Discovery Island. My children love it and I just love when they come home singing worship songs or my daughter leads my son in a bedtime prayer. The children’s ministry is a wonderful thing, such committed people that really get to know the kids on a weekly basis! My daughter loves her Kindergarten group leader and my son is now in the 3′s which is where my daughter started when we first started coming regularly!

      614 days ago

  • Norma

    As Brad was talking this past weekend, I was writing, the times in my life when I failed to trust God, ended in a MESS! Proverbs 3:5-6! WOW! There’s a reason why Proverbs is called”the book of wisdom”.
    Although I know that my Father ALWAYS knows best and He’s always been there for me in the past, I get into trouble when I doubt if He’ll come through at a particular moment when I think it’s critical. SO…I feel that I’ll just help the situation along. TROUBLE!!! TRUST! FAITH! DON’T depend on self!

    614 days ago

  • Conversation LeaderSue (Women’s & Small Group Regional Coordinator)

    God has continued to build my trust in Him! It was April of this year and I received a phone call from my brother stating that my dad had experienced heart failure when he was visiting his hometown in Missouri at his sister’s viewing (I had just lost my mom 6 months previous) my siblings and I flew down to my be with my dad and attend my aunt’s funeral. The pastor opened up with this verse Psalm46:1-3 my very own promise from God!! (read why in my previous post). I asked the pastor why he used that verse, and he said God laid it on his heart to use that day (he hadn’t ever used it before). I lost my dad that week, but I know that “God is my refuge and my strength, and ever present help in trouble.” I trust, because I would be lost without HIM.

    614 days ago

  • Emily

    My husband and I had a decision to make this week (very minor to anyone else, but it was big enough for us to be wrestling with for days). We discussed Brad’s talk and the “signs” in “Bruce Almighty”. I said we need to determine our parameters and see what God presents us with. Sure enough, when we received the information regarding this, EVERYTHING we said we needed to say “yes” was there, clear as day. My husband asked me what we were going to do, and I replied, “Are you serious?!?!? God could not have made this any more clear!”

    614 days ago1 Reply

    • Conversation LeaderBill Holbrook (Student Ministries)

      in reply to Emily

      Emily…That is awesome! Praise God for your ability to trust and follow!

      614 days ago

  • Schel

    I am so thankful that God loves me no matter what. I struggle daily with so many things, but this is one thing I completely believe. This is how I trust that no matter what is going on in my life, good and bad, God is with me. He will NEVER leave me. When I am going through difficult or trying times, I know that this is part of His plan and the outcome will be to His glory! Thank You Jesus!

    614 days ago

  • Kisha Emanuel-Durrell

    Loving the word of God at Northridge, thanks Pastor Brad for being true to the word of God opening the hearts of so many who long for direction and a relationship with God

    614 days ago